If we acknowledge love science – love sense – we can move forward. We can move toward a time when ‘true’ love, being known, becomes simpler and easier and more accessible to all of us.
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Emotional Labor and What’s Really Upsetting Women
There is a new book out by Gemma Hartley called Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward. Interesting! This labor is defined by Ms. Hartley as “unpaid invisible work we do to keep those around us comfortable and happy.” The point is, this labor is mostly considered women’s work and…
Relationships Are Not Fluff and Flowers. They’re about Making Difficult Choices.
I spend my days planning research studies, proofing books, and giving talks, all on the topic of love relationships and how to understand and repair relationships. Today I suddenly realized: tomorrow is my 30thwedding anniversary! 30 years. How can this have happened? If, as bonding science says, we can reach…
Take Small Steps to Reduce Stress in Your Relationship and Boost Your Bond
All the research from the last 30 years about the most potent therapy for relationship growth and recovery on this planet, plus the newest research on building intimate bonds… it all says the same thing: To foster connection we need not just to spend time together as companions, but to…